Grief Expert: “My Life is Good, But Why Don’t I Feel That Way?” – January 9th, 2010

How do we know if we have unresolved grief or when our grief has been resolved?

Tom is an experienced counselor who has helped over 1000 victims in 9/11 in NYC recover from grief and trauma. He talks live with TCKs to share his wisdom.

People often come to counseling and say: “I really don’t have anything to complain about, my life is good, but I don’t feel that way… I find myself withdrawing, angry, depressed, and I don’t know why. ”

Do you stop attaching as much to other relationships and you find yourself attaching to things rather than people?


How do we know if we have unresolved grief? (2 mins)

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“I have no complaints.” (2 mins)

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