Tom is an experienced counselor who has helped over 1000 victims in 9/11 in NYC recover from grief and trauma. He talks live with TCKs to share his wisdom.
“[Third Culture Kids] are the pioneers for what’s coming. What you’re experiencing today is the future.
The issues you have of loss of home are real imminent.”
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Key points:
* Pain often has a purpose. But when we get stuck in that, that’s when it becomes a problem. Grief is something we all have to go through in life.
* With TCKs, it’s not like you have a dead body or car wreck, the loss is invisible and colorless, you don’t have something to talk about with.
* People don’t understand the significant amount of loss particularly with some of the positive experiences that’s going on.
* It’s not anything what we enjoy to do, especially in cultures who are in denial and it’s something we avoid at all cost which causes the problems.
* The only way through it is through it.
In Tom Query’s 75-mins interview, you will:
Learn about Unresolved Grief and “Hidden” Losses
Discover How to Develop a Sense of Self Without Place
Learn About The Obstacles and Goals for Healthy Attachment
Why “Attachment is the Hardest Thing To Do”
Discover “Take-Away” Strategies and Helpful Suggestions… “The Only Way Through It Is Through It!”.
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